Marriage and Family Therapist Associate
MA MCFT
Supervisor: Pilar Hernandez-Wolfe, PhD, LPC, LMFT and Alana Ogilvie, LMFT, CST
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Client Status
2225 NE Martin Luther King Jr BLVD
#207
Portland, 97212
5242 SE 28th Ave
Portland, Oregon 97202
Rate: $60-$180
Provides free initial consultation
Practicing Since: 2020
Languages: English
My ideal client is open to trying new ways to get in touch with themselves; like mindfulness, breathing exercises, gentle movement, or philosophical discussion. You want to interrupt unhelpful patterns and find more meaningful was to relate and cope.
Specialties
When we have a sense of security and belonging, we feel much more confident to explore the world. We can explore your attachment style, how it impacts how you relate to the world, and tap into your ability to change it and find a sense of security in your life and relationships.
Our experiences make up who we are. As an experiential therapist, I will invite you to explore how you are experiencing the content of your life within the 'here and now'. I do so by engaging my clients with mindfulness exercises that explore their present emotional responses to the content they bring to therapy.
Our bodies hold wisdom and insight into our wants, needs, and boundaries. Our bodies allow us to experience parts of life like pleasure, play, and joy. They are also vessels that hold our pain. Through somatic therapy, we can reconnect to the feeling body, deepen into pleasure and joy, and identify where trauma/anxiety/depression is held in order to tend to it. I will invite you to check in with how your body responds to content expressed in session with compassion and curiosity.
So, you live in a body on a rock rotating around a big ball of gas in a limitless universe...yikes...now what? Well, whatever you want I suppose. I will compassionately support you through crises of isolation/belonging, death/life, freedom/responsibility, and the general run-of-the-mill sense of meaninglessness. I will invite you to create meaning for your experiences and touch base with how you experience them in the present moment.
Specialties
In a society that profits off of our insecurities, it's no wonder so many of us have a hard time loving and accepting ourselves. In addition to cultural influence, our experiences of relational harm and traumas can breed shame and isolation. I believe you are valuable and deserving of care, even if you can't accept that right now. I will hold compassion for you while challenging you to engage in self-acceptance and compassion. It's so hard to hate ourselves into someone that we love.
You are more than your trauma. In working with me, you will never be expected to disclose the fine details of your greatest hurts. Instead, we will gently cradle the emotional residue of those experiences, hold curiosity for those hurts as well as compassion for the ways that you continue to survive. That compassion will pave a path toward letting go of the survival strategies that are no longer serving you. We will slowly reintroduce you to your feeling body and invite you back into your life.
As someone who identifies as neurodivergent, I have big empathy for the magic and challenges that come from our unique experiences in this world. I warmly welcome allistic, autistic, ADHD, and AuAdhd clients alike. My approach to the neurodiverse client is one that encourages self-compassion, reframing mindfulness toward accessibility, and overall creating a space where you can be you. Where you can take the mask off and be fully yourself, even if you aren't entirely sure what that means.
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