Sarah Howeth

Sarah Howeth (she/her)

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist

LMFT

The heart of what I do is support couples and relationships in our community.

Client Status

accepting clients

Contact

503-300-5340

97214

At a Glance

Me

Rate: $175-$125

Provides free initial consultation

Languages: English

Services

  • Individual
  • Group
  • Relationship

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Pocket
  • Out of Network

My Ideal Client

You may be feeling lonely, stuck, hopeless, frustrated or misunderstood. You love and care about each other, but lately it has been feeling hard to connect. You want the sweet, easy connection and intimacy that you had earlier in your relationship, and mostly just long to feel deeply seen, heard and understood. 

What I Specialize In

When I work with couples and relationships, I’m interested in helping support you in navigating tough conversations, building a solid foundation together, and getting your relational needs met. I am passionate about working with couples and relationships around: getting free from the cycle of conflict, communicating more skillfully together, mending and tending to trust issues, finding more sexual satisfaction, healing old hurts, and sinking into more relational security together. When I work with individuals, I'm interested in helping you sink into being fully you while being in relationship with others. That might mean learning more about who you are, discovering your needs in relationship, getting support with boundaries and saying "no," processing your childhood and past, or growing your ability to being more vulnerable with others. I want to support you in being your full, authentic self.

My Approach to Helping

Couples and intimate partners all have patterns in the way that they relate based on their early attachment histories. What this means is that when we get into relationship, we might find ourselves having the same argument about the dishes that doesn't actually feel like it is about the dishes. What I'm interested in helping you do is get to the heart of the matter and communicate about it together. In addition to my training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Nonviolent Communication, Hakomi Therapy and Sensorimotor Therapy, I bring an anti-oppressive lens to my work with clients. I am a white, cis, able-bodied, middle-class woman living and working in Portland, Oregon (occupied land of the Clackamas and Cowlitz).

Techniques I Use

Specialties

  • Emotionally Focused External link

    Couples and intimate partners all have patterns in the way that they relate based on their early attachment histories. EFT uses present-moment experience to become more aware of these usually unconscious ways of relating and help partners find more connection by communicating more vulnerably and directly to each other. You can view a list of EFT training I have completed here: https://radicalrelatingtherapy.com/background

  • Couples Counseling External link

    The heart of what I do is support couples and relationships in our community. Couples and intimate partners all have patterns in the way that they relate based on their early attachment histories. What this means is that when we get into relationship, we might find ourselves having the same argument about the dishes that doesn't actually feel like it is about the dishes. What I'm interested in helping you do is get to the heart of the matter and communicate about it together.

  • Hakomi External link

    Hakomi Therapy uses present-moment experience, like thoughts, body sensations, feelings, etc., to elucidate “core material” (unconscious ways of being in the world) and transform it, often through mindful experiments. You can view a list of Hakomi training I have completed here: https://radicalrelatingtherapy.com/background

  • Sensorimotor External link

    Present-moment experience is used, with special attention on body sensations. This modality can be especially powerful when there is trauma. Bringing mindful attention to body sensations allows trauma activation to processed in a manageable way.

  • Somatic Therapy (Body Centered) External link

    Maybe you’ve tried talk therapy and are wanting a different approach. Mindfulness-based experiential therapy places a high value on present-moment experience. With mindful compassionate curiosity, we explore what is true for you related to your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, body sensations, impulses, behaviors, needs, and memories. At times, we may explore what it is like to say or do something, or mindfully notice the impact of something. Mindfulness is a powerful agent for transformation.

Issues I Treat

Specialties

  • Relationship / Marriage Issues External link

    The heart of what I do is support couples and relationships in our community. You may be feeling lonely, stuck, hopeless, frustrated or misunderstood. You love and care about each other, but lately it has been feeling hard to connect. You want the sweet, easy connection and intimacy that you had earlier in your relationship, and mostly just long to feel deeply seen, heard and understood.

  • Personal Growth External link

    The heart of what I do is support couples and relationships in our community. When I work with individuals, I'm interested in helping you sink into being fully you while being in relationship with others. That might mean learning more about who you are, discovering your needs in relationship, getting support with boundaries and saying "no," processing your childhood and past, or growing your ability to being more vulnerable with others. I want to support you in being your full, authentic self.

  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships External link

    Whether you are polyamorous, ENM, open, or monogamous, I’m interested in helping support you in navigating tough conversations, building a solid foundation together, and getting your relational needs met. I often work with folks who are ethically non-monogamous. I want to support you in being your full, authentic self while being in relationship in a way that aligns with who you are and what you need.

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